A few days ago, I was asked: ''¿Cuàl prefieres, España o los Estados Unidos?'' This means: Do you prefer Spain or the United States. It got me thinking about the characteristics of each country that I prefer. I told the man that I didn't have a favorite. Maybe after making this list, I can make a better decision...
-I love the weather: After being here for almost two weeks, I have seen literally four clouds in the sky. No clouds means more sun, which I love. It rained one night here, but it was very late and I was getting ready for bed when it started, and the ground was completely dry by the morning. The average temperture has been about 21 degrees celcius, which is about 70 degrees farenheit. Everyday the temperature is very comfortable and there seems to always be a cool breeze. At this point, I really love the weather here, but perhaps if I was studying abroad during the winter, I would have a different opinion.
-BUT: There are many great things about Michigan's weather that I love as well. The summers are mild, with occassional really hot days. The fall is the most gorgeous time of year and seeing all the colors and changes in the trees is really unmatched. The winters, on the other hand, stink. I really am a more unhappy person during the months of January and February because of the below zero temperatures, fast winds, and the overall sense of hopelessness shown by everyone walking around on campus. However, I can't complain because the long winters make for that first warm day in Spring to be miraculous.
-BUT: There are many great things about Michigan's weather that I love as well. The summers are mild, with occassional really hot days. The fall is the most gorgeous time of year and seeing all the colors and changes in the trees is really unmatched. The winters, on the other hand, stink. I really am a more unhappy person during the months of January and February because of the below zero temperatures, fast winds, and the overall sense of hopelessness shown by everyone walking around on campus. However, I can't complain because the long winters make for that first warm day in Spring to be miraculous.
-The People: It seems like everyone here is beautiful. Everyone is very fashion-forward and has very interesting ways of presenting themselves. Almost everyone seems to take care of themselves a lot more. What I mean by this is that there are very few overweight people here, and I see lots of people exercising a great deal. It is rare to see someone in sweat pants or athletic shorts because it seems that people dress to impress. There are also many people who are very kind and helpful, especially to someone who is unfamiliar with the language, culture, and place such as me.
-BUT: I can't say that everyone looks and acts perfect all the time. I have encountered a great deal of people who are extremely unfriendly and upon noticing that I have an American accent, will turn away and/or lie as to not have to go out of their way to help someone in need. I suppose the attitudes of people here are very much the same. Some people are friendly, kind and willing and others are mean and not helpful where ever you may be in the world.
-The culture: I am a big fan of the cultural differences between here and the United States. As mentioned in my previous post, many people seem to be more family oriented here than in the United States. Family revolves around the lunch table which is filled with conversation of school and work, and what lies ahead in the coming days. People are very laid back in almost all circumstances, and this seems to make for a more comfortable environment. At night, people without children and large families tend to go out in the late afternoon to socialize and spend time with their friends. Tapas bars are very popular and can be found on almost every corner, because people love to meet up with friends and discuss politics, celebrities, family and above all sports. And although I have no interest in partaking in this activity, I found it very surprising that the cafeteria in my school serves beer and wine! I think this may be the most surprising thing I have encountered since being here. I am not opposed to this at all, but it just goes to show how people here are more lax and have overall better control of what is going on around them.
-BUT: There are a few drawbacks in the constant sense of relaxation. Many people here seem to have a poor work ethic, especially when it comes to helping a large group such as us. We have experienced a lot of lies and deception on the part of workers and the train station and at some stores in the mall. In the U.S. it seems that people are very frequently in a rush to do things, and the phrase ''time is money'' is often practiced subconsciously. I believe time should be utilized and workers should do whatever they can to better serve their clients. In a business, time ultimately is money, and to be able to accommodate and cater to everyone, kindness, efficiency, and diligency should be practiced. Not to say that everyone here is inefficient or have a poor work ethic, it just seems that sometimes being laid back can often times have its down sides.
Weather, people and culture are the three sectors of Spain that have impacted me the most in terms of change. I have been here for two weeks, but it seems like months. Although it has seemed like more, I still don't think I have spent nearly enough time here to make a decision about which country I like better. I don't think I will ever be able to make a decision, seeing that the culture is so vastly different.
Hope everyone is enjoying what I have to say, and I apologize for not posting more frequently. More to come soon about my trips to Segovia, Salamanca, El Escorial and Madrid.
Adios